Remembering Michael Krepon

Our community is deeply saddened at the passing of Michael Krepon, co-founder of the Stimson Center and a tireless advocate for international peace and security. 

Michael was an internationally renowned leader in the fight to prevent nuclear war and an eloquent advocate for pragmatic ways to reduce the threat that nuclear weapons pose to our civilization. For those who had the benefit of knowing him, he was a friend and mentor, a voice of conscience and kindness, and a stalwart advocate for the organization that has continued his legacy of leadership.

A Legacy of Achievement

It was in service to others that Michael found his calling, dedicating himself to protecting humankind from our worst impulses. He was an early and influential post-Cold War advocate for the complete elimination of nuclear weapons, helping to bring that idea into the mainstream. As President of the Stimson Center, with co-founder Barry Blechman, he played essential roles in the creation of the Open Skies Treaty, the permanent extension of the Nuclear Nonproliferation Treaty, and ratification of the Chemical Weapons Convention, each landmark achievements in their own right. Michael’s impact was also especially felt in South Asia, where he worked with a generation of leaders in both India and Pakistan to apply the lessons of the Cold War, build confidence between adversaries, and reduce the chance of nuclear war on the subcontinent. He was the author of 23 books, most recently Winning and Losing the Nuclear Peace: The Rise, Demise, and Revival of Arms Control, and countless papers and essays.

"My commitment to this meaningful work is rooted, like so many others, in an immigrant’s tale...." This is Michaels' personal story in his own words.

An extended tribute from colleagues and friends. In early 2022, Michael's friends and colleagues published The Gift of Meaningful Work, a collection of essays about Michael's life, work, and impact. (PDF)

Visit Michael's biography for a full listing of his more than 500 pieces of writing and and news articles.

A chapter by Michael that covers the story of Stimson's founding and early achievements

Remembrances

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"It is with the deepest sadness that I learned of Michael’s passing. He taught me early in my career that there are no perfect solutions to the nuclear weapons problem and that we each can only do our part to leave things just a little better than we found them. I enjoyed every single interaction I had with Michael; he inspired a generation and will be missed."

"Michael was a pioneering and caring leader and guiding force behind the Stimson Center -- and the dynamic community of scholar-practitioners it spawned over decades -- from its inception in 1989. From interns and the most junior new members of Team Stimson to long-time associates, he was always generous with his time and thoughtful advice based on decades of original and impassioned policy research. His prolific scholarship made a difference and will continue to have an impact, with global reach, for decades to come. The Stimson Community will miss Michael dearly but continue to take inspiration from the path-breaking example he set for both present and future generations of scholar-practitioners."

"I had the great pleasure of working with Michael over the years. There are a lot of people with great skill and accomplishment in the DC world. But all too few who blend intensity and humility, commitment and compassion, as well as Michael did. Condolences to the Krepon family."

"I first met Michael in New Delhi, where I was in the embassy and Michael was on a trip to gather facts, share ideas, and stay in touch with his many contacts in the region. We had a nice conversation during which I am sure I learned more than he did.

I came to know Michael better when I joined the Board at Stimson. He was a thoughtful, insightful, knowledgeable, and strategic colleague for Board members and an inspirational and supportive colleague for the Stimson staff. Over the years at Stimson, I found that Michael always listened very carefully to others and, unlike many in Washington's policy community, did not speak unless he had something to say that would advance the discussion of which he was a part. He also had an excellent sense of humor.

Washington is full of smart people who care deeply about issues and are knowledgeable about them. In my view, what made Michael a special person was that he combined his knowledge and passion with real care for people, people he worked with, as well as people who live in troubled regions, and that care motivated and allowed him to build bridges of communications (and sometimes understanding) that led to progress and sometimes breakthroughs.

Michael will be remembered by all who knew him, in whatever capacity, and those who work on the issues to which he devoted his talents and life. He was a good man and he and his life's work made a difference."

"An immeasurable loss. Michael was an educator, author, advocate, mentor, co-founder – and a giant for nuclear peace. He was an advocate for for diplomacy and action. Even if the political conditions seemed daunting, he was a true believer — always positive that each step, big or small, was significant in moving forward. Cynicism blocks creativity, he would say, and in this business perseverance is key.

Michael leaves behind an incredibly bright light. His kindness was unbounded. Mentoring generations, encouraging new talent, and engaging in meaningful work are at the heart of his legacy. His is a celebration of life, his family, and Stimson.

It is up to us all to carry on his light and actively encourage policy to move forward. Onwards toward nuclear peace!"

"Michael’s sudden death is a dark and sad time for his family and friends. Please convey my deepest sympathy and condolences. But it is a tragedy for us who looked to him as a practical visionary for ways to prevent war and the threat weapons of mass destruction create. His last book, Winning and Losing the Nuclear Peace, is a comprehensive and masterful survey of the efforts governments and people made to use diplomacy and science to resolve conflicts and build enduring institutions for peace. It will stand as a memorial to his knowledge and wisdom in the service of policy. 

Written before Russia invaded Ukraine and began rattling its nuclear sabers, it is a hopeful but not optimistic book. His concluding thought was: “Much of the edifice of arms control has been torn down. It’s up to us to rebuild it. Success is again possible because failure would be too costly.” We believed Michael would be with us to help us think our way through the paths to practical and realistic policy solutions. Our tragedy is that his intellect and experience have now been lost to us.

Michael and I were colleagues going back 40 years to ACDA in the Carter Administration. After he left to co-found the Stimson Center with Barry Blechman, we met periodically to share experiences and perceptions, his from the outside, mine from the inside. Needless to say, we did not always see eye to eye. 

Many years thereafter, we reengaged as friends during his research for the book. Principally, he quizzed me on my service as lead Clinton Administration negotiator to revive the 1972 ABM Treaty, following the Star Wars interlude of the Reagan era. The negotiations, lasting six years, resulted in a number of hopeful agreements with Russia and the successor states. But ultimately, the effort failed owing to Clinton’s political weakness and Republican pressures to deploy advanced missile defenses. In 2001, President Bush announced our intention to withdraw from the ABM Treaty.

In a way, the ABM story I shared with him was emblematic of the book’s chronicle of sound but lost arms control causes. He could not understand why we would give up legally binding, verifiable limits on missile defenses in exchange for the technical uncertainties of untried defenses in the midst of war during the last 15 minutes of reentry. We agreed, wouldn’t good policy be served by both capable defenses subject to legal limits?

Michael’s legacy is assured—in his books and articles, in the scholars and civil servants he mentored, and in the Stimson Center itself. We will miss his gentle and impelling voice."

"The Stimson Center lost its founder, I lost a friend and colleague, and the world lost a tireless proponent of peace and international security. Michael had a following all over the world, including in many countries that I have traveled to. What comes to mind at this sad time are the words of the most revered Kazakh poet, Abai:

“Many people gave their lives to the fleeting world,
Putting their best foot first to the death from the birth,
But is it possible to say, that the man is dead,
If he’s left in the world the immortal word?”


Michael, indeed, left us the immortal word in arms control and nuclear security with his many writings, including his recent capstone book Winning and Losing the Nuclear Peace.

My condolences to Michael's family and friends."

"Those of us whose entire careers were with the Government had interactions with a wide cross-section of the NGO community. Standing out were the Stimson Center, and Michael Krepon in particular.  When dealing with nuclear nonproliferation and with South Asia, Michael displayed a deep knowledge and an earnest pragmatism that commanded attention.     

What Michael sought in multilateral forums dealing with nuclear issues were incremental steps—steps that had some chance of being accepted within the U.S. interagency process and of being acquiesced in by the other nuclear weapons states.  He did not shy away from advocating for total nuclear disarmament but he recognized that it could not be achieved without addressing the myriad practical and political hurdles standing in the way.   

Michael took a similar approach to nuclear weapons development in South Asia.  Not only did he contribute ideas to US Government efforts to limit such development, he also personally planted numerous seeds of peace with individuals from both India and Pakistan.   Some of those seeds have borne fruit while others lay dormant awaiting a more favorable environment. 

Michael’s ideas, spoken and written, will stand as major contributions to the effort to curb the spread of nuclear weapons."

"I cannot say how much I learned from Michael. Everything from how to reach out to stakeholders and to always have intellectual curiosity, he demonstrated the way to be a policy experts through his own writing and activities. What he taught me by his actions most was the importance of mentorship to junior scholars and provide them guidance and support for their professional development."

"I am extremely saddened to hear about the demise of Michael Krepon. He was a mentor of mentors, and a caring friend of mine. We would often have e-mail exchanges discussing the prospects of Nuclear Arms Reduction at the global level, as well as probable solutions to the challenges facing international non-proliferation regimes. We had differing views on most of these issues, but that never crossed our way to maintaining a decent friendship. It's indeed a great loss for the international community of strategists. May he rest in eternal peace!"

"Michael was a gentle arms control guru who was also a true mensch. He always made time for a conversation and was generous in sharing his views. He was soft-spoken and chose his words with care, but they were all the more wise and impactful for that. He persevered with arms control advocacy even when this was out of fashion and had the inner conviction that a better world was achievable. He saw bright possibilities even in dark times. We kept in touch after I retired from government service and shared enthusiasm for conflict prevention measures, such as a Code of Conduct for Outer Space Security that few paid attention to. He leaves a vast and moving legacy both in his writings and his personal engagement."

"My first three articles for the South Asian Voices received a flurry of long comments from Michael Krepon. Those remarks were insightful and encouraging, to say the least. However, what was noticeable and reflective through those was Michael's deep understanding of, and concern about, South Asia's nuclear dynamics. Seeing my interests in reading classics on nuclear strategy, he gifted me Morton Halperin's 'Limited War in the Nuclear Age.' The inscription on the book read : ""Don't try this at home."" In another meeting, he discussed with us all the importance of asking good questions. That, I must stress, was an enriching session. Last but not least, what will stick with me is his telling me this: ""We are not here to tell you what to think; we are just here to help you think."" May God bless his departed soul."

"In recent years, I always sent Michael drafts of my writings on arms control and strategic-nuclear issues. He was always a super sensible sounding board, source of good advice, and encouragement. Plus, his love of his garden, not least his ferns, always provided a source of cheer in complicated times. We shall very much miss both in today's world."

"There was a time when Michael and I were frequently in touch, and especially during the ""Operation Brasstacks"" (1986-87) when the Vajpayee Government in New Delhi took a very aggressive posture towards Pakistan, and Michael was really worried that India and Pakistan were poised for a war with possibly nuclear weapons in the play. In short he was very worried, and it was my job to calm him - he was looking at the situation from a traditional western perspective, and I knew the Indian ""kabuki dance"" on the Rajasthan border would not amount to anything given the character and style of the Indian PM and frailty of the Indian polity at that time. But of course, he felt least assured by my soothing words and undertook a trip to India to assess the situation for himself and met with many Indian military generals, including the DGMO. On his return, he was even more convinced that a war was looming in the subcontinent. So I bet him a lunch at a restaurant of choice if I am proven wrong, and the vice versa. Some time later, when I had forgotten the whole affair, he called me and said, ""I owe you a lunch."" I said to myself what a gentleman and a sweet person. So we had the lunch together., but more importantly, we enjoyed the conversation and his company.

We stayed in touch over the years though Covid took its toll. But I saw him only a few months back. He looked frail but the sparkle in his eyes was as bright as ever. I will surely miss him. Michael was a very passionate man dedicated to peace and stability in South Asia. A true friend of the region where one-sixth of the humanity lives.

I will cherish his books that he autographed me."

"Michael Krepon was a giant of the field, but more than that, he was a mentor, an ally, and a friend, including to Student Pugwash USA. His legacy will live on in his epic accomplishments and the words of inspiration and guidance he shared with a whole generation of arms control advocates. A few months ago, Michael shared this wisdom in discussion with myself and SPUSA. “We live in dark times. And this isn’t the first time. But… it’s always darkest before the dawn in this field. We’ve got to rebuild. We’ve got to persevere. We’ve got to be creative. We also have to be insistent. But we can do this. I’m proof that persistence matters.” Speaking directly to young people and professionals in the field, he added: “You’re facing tremendous resistance. (But) every good achievement, every great achievement, has occurred against resistance. So find ways to refresh your spirits… you don’t have to look for huge victories. Daily victories matter, and they will accumulate.” Thank you for everything you did, Michael, for the community and for us all as individuals. Rest in peace."

"Michael was a intellectual giant in the field of arms control and nonproliferation. He earned respect across the political spectrum and inspired generations of younger talent. We may not soon see a worthy successor."

"In Japan and at the United Nations I very much appreciated his advices and insights on world peace and security. His passing comes at a critical time when the world needs his advices more than ever. I send my deepest condolences upon his passing. Nobuyasu Abe, former UN Under-Secretary-General for Disarmament Affairs."

"I came across Michael and his work in my capacity as an Indian diplomat. We shared an interest in nuclear security issues and I met him during my visits to Washington and when I was invited to speak at Stimson. I had the privilege of hosting him in Delhi and the presentation he made on nuclear security to a large audience left a deep impression. He will be missed both for his personal qualities as well as one of the foremost scholars on security issues, in particular nuclear security. I convey my sincere condolences to his bereaved family and to Stimson. May his soul rest in peace."

"My first meeting with Michael was probably his first visit to India in 1992. He was Invited to address the Fellows and Researchers at the Institute of Defence Studies and Analyses, New Delhi, that I chaired. He began by reading out from the lead article of the current issue of our monthly journal Strategic Analyses, which I had authored. In it I had narrated my personal view of the collapse of the Soviet Union in Nov 1989, even when it probably had the largest nuclear arsenal and the strongest military. That led to a common bond that has lasted to this day. His support and friendship through subsequent years, shaped my life thereafter. Never forget his quiet and gentle voice, his love and consideration and steadfast interest and guidance."

"Of the many things that Michael taught me over almost forty years of friendship, the most important was to treat everyday as a "bonus day." Thank you, Michael."

"Michael and I met in 1973 or 1974. I worked for Senator Dick Clark of Iowa and Michael was then working either for ACDA or for a House Armed Services Committee member. We bonded over, of course, baseball. We talked hours more baseball than public policy, though we spent a lot of time on both. When Michael asked me to be in his wedding, I surprised and honored. I left Washington in late 1975, but we stayed in touch through the years. My wife and I had lunch with him the summer of 2000. He autographed his last book for me. He sent me an email on May 27 to tell me of the terminal nature of his condition. I am saddened. He left a legacy both professionally and personally. It's a cliche', but he will certainly be missed."

"Little did I know when I met Michael in 1993 that he would become an important member of our family. What I did not know at the time was that Michael was also mentoring my future wife, Lisa Owens Davis, and that he would be here with us as she lost her battle with cancer a couple of years ago. Yes, he guided our intellectual growth and career choices. I traveled with him to South Asia, where we had tons of fun with our Indian and Pakistani friends. And panels, so many panels. But Michael also ministered to our souls as we faced the ultimate challenge of death. He shared with us his own thoughts about death and dying. He called, he showed up, he listened, he shared, he understood and he cared. Our connection went far beyond national security and arms control. A giant in the field, yes. A force for good and the triumph of our "better angels," without a doubt. He must have set a record for mentoring. But Michael Krepon's influence and goodness far exceeded the material confines of this world and reached the spiritual and mystical realms, where he was also a master teacher and guide. I really loved that guy."

"I am so sad to hear of Michael’s passing. I feel very fortunate to have had the opportunity to interview, film and photograph him several times while I was a Communications Specialist at the Stimson Center. I will forever be grateful for the many hours I spent intently listening to him speak, soaking up as much knowledge from him as I could. His legacy will live on forever."

"For those of us working the South Asia beat in the late 1990s, especially India and Pakistan, Michael was an invaluable adviser. He was also very patient with us. After hearing us out on what our policy initiatives were (and wanting him to enthusiastically support), he would invariably say: ""Very interesting, but have you ever thought about -----"". And he always said it with a smile.

Our world was a better and safer place with Michael in it. Godspeed Michael."

"Very sorry to hear about the passing away of a tireless champion of nuclear nonproliferation. His works on South Asia, especially on stability-instability paradox, have been very illuminating."

"While I never had the privilege of meeting Mr. Krepon personally, his writing, passion and advocacy for building a world free of nuclear danger inspired my own research into the topic; first as a graduate student and later as a faculty member at the National Defense University. I owe him a debt of gratitude for providing an immeasurable gift of scholarly research and other good works which, hopefully, will change the world for the better."

"I had the immense honour of participating and speaking at a virtual launch event of his book “Winning and Losing the Nuclear Peace: The Rise, Demise and Revival of Arms Control” - and it was only a few months ago. Like so many others, I always admired, and was inspired by, his analysis and vision for preventing conflict and making the world a safer and a more secure place. He will be missed so much - but I renew my commitment to this important work, together with so many who have been inspired by him."

"I knew Michael through his texts first. Then I met him through my boss Dr Arbatov and his projects. Finally, I met him personally and was part of Michael's projects, and he participated in the projects I organized. He was, and still is, a role model for me and, I believe, for many coming to our research area. When I reached him at a conference somewhere many years ago for the first time, who was I? My English was poor. Still, he stopped; he was attentive and behaved like an equal to me. And it was always Michael's approach to younger scholars. The last time he contacted me suggested making a launching discussion of his book in Sweden, "Winning and Losing the Nuclear Peace". Unfortunately, it was time when I was relocating from Sweden to Russia. I was so sorry not to be able to arrange this discussion at that time. However, I firmly believe that this book is a sound message from Michael that we must listen to "for the revival of arms control."

"Michael brought me to the Stimson Center to launch the Japan Program and support work on Confidence-Building Measures especially between Japan and China. His vision and commitment to paving the way to peace one stone at a time remains the guiding principle for all my work. He would tell me to focus on the details and be sure to get them right — because the tiniest things matter and you need credibility above all else. Then he would remind me to raise my gaze and recall the fundamental purpose of the work I was doing. In Tokyo one time he grew frustrated with how tentative I was in relations with Japanese bureaucrats, and finally we had an argument in which I told him he was misunderstanding how to exert influence in the cultural and political context I had studied for over a decade. He laughed and said he was grateful to clear the air and once I spelled out why our theory of impact had to be longer-term he embraced that and afterwards he always defended me. Michael was always at least one step ahead in his thinking, and always passionate about the long-term goal. May his memory be for a blessing."

"Michael was a great scholar, a tireless activist for peace, an inspiring educator, and a wonderful man. This world needs a thousand Michaels, but there will be only one. There is a big hole in our universe. My thoughts and prayers for his family and his friends."

"Michael made so many contributions, but his emphasis on the importance and practice of "restraint" in strategic matters--whether nuclear or space--will, I. think, remain especially influential as policymakers imagine how to cope with a wave of new challenges. He was a model of thoughtfulness, demonstrating that bluster was not a necessary component of being influential, and generous and reassuring to younger people coming into the field, including, at one time, this one."

"He was welcoming and a quiet guide by his words and actions. I learned to follow his lead and benefit from his deep knowledge and passion for peace."

"Michael has a unique way of seeing people and building their confidence. He brings a sense of mission to the people working with or around him. He is always eager to hear what younger scholars have to say and sees the value in what others might consider untraditional analysis. For us younger scholars, who are usually awed and daunted by the depth of the knowledge from veterans like Michael, his encouragement comes not only as a push of support, but also as a sense of mandate by responsibility."

"It is hard to overstate the impact Michael Krepon has had on a whole generation of nuclear scholars — particularly those, like me, who came of age with India and Pakistan’s 1998 nuclear tests and the birth of a delicate nuclear subsystem in Southern Asia that few in the United States were equipped to understand, let alone manage."

"Michael Krepon’s contribution to preventing nuclear conflict is immense and legendary. So too are his contributions to offering a vision, building community, and inspiring others to join the effort to prevent conflicts. I know because I have experienced and seen his impact for more than 30 years. And my hunch is that there are hundreds of people like me who are deeply affected by all he has offered."

"As one of the original Stimson board members, I was present at the creation and retain indelible memories of Michael’s entrepreneurial vision, unwavering persistence and genuine commitment to furthering the Stimson mission. Along with Barry, he played an indispensable role in building and sustaining the institution. All this, of course, in addition to his own prolific research and writing that have influenced so many policy makers and thought leaders over these many years. Michael’s legacy is timeless, and he is owed an incalculable debt of gratitude."

Please consider a special donation to the Stimson Center in honor of Michael Krepon

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Stimson: The First Decade

by Michael Krepon

In 1989, after six years at the Carnegie Endowment, Tom Hughes called me into his office and clearly suggested that it was time for me to think hard about my next step. Meanwhile, Barry was feeling way too confined working out of his home. We put our heads together. Was it a good time to try to launch a new think tank in 1989? The two big nongovernmental organizations situated on the center-left of the political spectrum – the Endowment and Brookings – were doing great work, but the turnover at the Endowment meant that it didn’t have signature issues or continuity, while Brookings was then focused on producing books that mattered rather than engaging on policy debates. There were small, activist NGOs that were very issue oriented and that played essential roles, but they were type cast and growth constrained. To the right of center, NGOs like the Heritage Foundation serviced and supported the Reagan administration. Their views were thoroughly predictable.

Barry Blechman and I were both born under auspicious signs. The world was changing radically in 1989. The Berlin wall was coming down. The Warsaw Pact was dissolving. The Soviet Union was, too. Cold War thinking no longer applied. It was an ideal time to think about old topics in new ways, and time to address new problems and opportunities. The Washington think tank landscape was fixed amidst all this change. NGO programming steeped in advocacy, pro and con, had become yesterday’s news. The orthodox belief systems of arms controllers and anti-arms controllers were also old hat.

It was a perfect time to start up a new think tank – if Barry and I could raise the money.

I had been working at the Carnegie Endowment for International Peace for six years. Barry was working from his home. It was time for us to reach out to funders that were already supporting us to see if they would continue to support our work if we teamed up and started a new think tank. By this time, I was a known commodity from my writing and my programming at the Endowment. Ken Thompson, my old benefactor at the Rockefeller Foundation, was now situated at the University of Virginia’s Miller Center. He gave me another lift by publishing a collection of my opinion pieces, Arms Control in the Reagan Administration. Would funders at the Carnegie Corporation, the Ford Foundation, and Ploughshares continue to support Barry and me if we created a new think tank for policy entrepreneurship?

The answer was yes, so we took the leap. In 1989, the timing was right to set up a new think tank, and a bare minimum of start-up funds were in hand. But success was far from assured. Foundation grants offered minimal support for overhead, which would be OK at the outset because we would be small, but not OK if we grew. There would be no endowment, not at the outset, not as we grew, and not now. And both Barry and I had health issues, although neither of us shared this information. He was recovering from one of several encounters with cancer, and I had been hospitalized with sarcoidosis, a disease that causes inflammation of the cells. I woke up one morning and collapsed in our bedroom. Exploratory surgery discovered sarcoid as the reason why some of my organs were shutting down. Steroids provided a miracle cure.

Like all very hard things in life, from raising a family to moss gardening, creating a think tank takes more work than is apparent at the outset. Barry projected confidence, and I drafted behind him like a NASCAR driver. One crucial insurance policy was that our non-profit think tank would have a for-profit partner – Barry’s defense consulting business, Defense Forecasts, Inc. If our non-profit faltered and Barry’s business grew, we could still get by.

Our think tank needed a name. The constellation of think tanks in Washington is crowded with forgettable and interchangeable names, like the Center for International and Strategic Studies of Hugely Important Matters. Barry and I gravitated toward something more distinctive and therefore memorable. The regrettably defunct Roosevelt Center offered a better model: Find a person’s name that signifies a set of issues and an approach to their betterment. But what names were not already taken and still available?

We began with a concept of what our new think tank would be about. We would work on hard issues of national and international security. We would avoid partisanship. We would play both an outside and an inside game. We would seek to frame terms of public debate on important issues. We would also seek to offer suggestions to the executive and legislative branches, as well as to other target audiences, domestic and foreign, on how best to proceed.

What name would suggest all this? I came up with the name of Henry L. Stimson. Stimson was a trust-busting internationalist in the Teddy Roosevelt mode, fighting for the soul of the Republican Party against America Firsters and isolationists. He embodied nonpartisanship, serving every president but one from Taft to Truman, twice as Secretary of War and once as Secretary of State. After his first stint as Secretary of War, he enlisted to serve in World War I. As Secretary of State, he negotiated naval arms control and introduced the concept of nonrecognition of territorial gains won through aggressive war. As Secretary of War the second time around, he oversaw the Manhattan Project and supported the use of nuclear weapons as “the least abhorrent choice” to end the war in the Pacific as soon as possible. Stimson tried to make amends after the war by seeking abolition so that no other U.S. official would have face his choice ever again.

I understood why Stimson made this decision: over 400,000 U.S. soldiers died in World War II. I have a copy of one of his condolence letters, sent to my Uncle Mickey’s mother after he was killed. Stimson’s signature is in ink at the bottom, probably signed by robo-pen. Fifty million or more died in that war. Revisionist histories contend that the war was “effectively” over when Hiroshima and Nagasaki were targeted, and that atomic bombs were used to send a message to Josef Stalin. Revisionists neglect the fierceness of Japanese soldiers fighting in a losing cause. Not to end the carnage as quickly as possible because Japan was bound to lose — and the signing many more letters of condolence — would have been indefensible for Truman and Stimson.

Even so, naming our think tank after Stimson wasn’t an easy choice for Barry and me. While I never second-guessed Stimson’s decision to use the atomic bomb to end World War II, I couldn’t endorse it, either. One of the many essential construction projects after the war ended was to erect humanitarian laws of warfare. Cities were fair game during World War II, whether by “iron bombs,” firebombs, and then by atom bombs. The fatalities from the destruction of Dresden and Tokyo far exceeded the loss of life at Hiroshima and Nagasaki. For me, the enduring meaning of Hiroshima is never again. The meaning of Nagasaki is how hard it is to stop the machinery of nuclear warfare after first use.

Back to Stimson: Like many others of his station in life, he was an anti-Semite and held racist views. He and his wife wouldn’t socialize with divorcées, either. As Secretary of War the second time around, he didn’t bomb the train tracks leading to the concentration camps. Barry and I are both Jewish. Our lineage is Lithuanian on one side, Ukrainian on the other. We considered the dark aspects of Stimson’s character, considered the time in which he lived, and chose to focus on what he tried to accomplish that was positive and instructive. Some of Stimson’s pursuits would be core issues for our start-up, and he was right about a good many issues. We also saw the irony of the two of us borrowing Stimson’s name – if we could get permission to do so.

The Stimsons were childless, so we had to figure out how to go about asking for permission. We decided to approach McGeorge Bundy, who was then teaching at New York University, having previously stepped down as President of the Ford Foundation. Before that, he served as the national security advisor for Presidents Kennedy and Johnson. McGeorge’s brother was William Bundy, the man chosen to edit Foreign Affairs (and to publish me) who caused such a ruckus because of his involvement in decisions on the Vietnam War. Both Bundys couldn’t cleanse their hands of Vietnam, but if you could see past Vietnam, the entire body of their work was impressive.

Their father, Harvey Bundy, was Stimson’s right-hand man at the State Department and later at the War Department during World War II. Young McGeorge helped Stimson write his autobiography, On Active Service in Peace and War. Nuclear arms control would be a core issue for the think tank we were going to create, and Bundy had just published an important book about nuclear weapons, Danger and Survival, part history and part reflection of his years in government. McGeorge Bundy was the obvious person to ask permission to use Stimson’s name for our think tank.

Barry and I met him in his book-laden office at NYU. One of our talking points was that it was important to keep Stimson’s name in public view, and to call attention to his record of public service and his nonpartisan approach. The idea intrigued Bundy, but he didn’t know us from Adam. He said he’d be back in touch, no doubt after some reconnaissance and due diligence. When Bundy did get in touch, he suggested a meeting with Peter Kaminer, a German émigré who worked with Stimson as a young lawyer and rose through the ranks to become the managing partner at Winthrop & Stimson, a white shoe law firm on Wall Street. 

I met with Kaminer over lunch at his private club in Manhattan. Long retired, he spoke with a German accent and was scrupulously dressed. He must have liked what he heard, because after a few days, Bundy got back to us: The Henry L. Stimson Center received their seal of approval. Later, we became the Stimson Center, and still later, just Stimson.

My circles were unbroken: I kept reconnecting with people and institutions. Bundy and I met from time to time to talk about the Stimson Center and our work on nuclear arms control. By then, Bundy had an office at the Carnegie Corporation, which had become our biggest and longest foundation benefactor. Before he died, Bundy gave me books from his library, books I treasured. They had his microscopic notes in the margins. He also gave Stimson some of his father’s memorabilia, the most important of which was the briefing that General Leslie Groves, the head of the Manhattan Project, gave to his father. (Groves gave the same briefing to Truman, Stimson and a few others.)

Back then, briefings were presented on easels, consisting of 2X3 foot slabs of cardboard. On these cardboard slabs were mounted ‘before and after’ images of Hiroshima and Nagasaki taken from observation planes. The ‘before’ pictures outlined in black ink military targets in both cities; the ‘after’ pictures showed jaw-dropping damage.

After Truman heard Groves’s briefing and saw these images, he intervened to order a halt to preparations to drop a third atomic bomb on a Japanese city. This briefing was instrumental in disabusing Truman of his false comfort in thinking that ‘only’ military targets were destroyed by atomic bombs. I like to think that this briefing was also instrumental in convincing Truman not to use atomic bombs to break the stalemated Korean War, setting the foundation for a nuclear taboo – no more use in warfare – that extends to this day. In public, Truman professed to have had no qualms about using atomic bombs against Hiroshima and Nagasaki. In private, Truman – like Stimson – became a charter member of the “never again” club. After receiving Bundy’s gift, I took steps to preserve and protect the briefing, which was placed in one of Stimson’s conference rooms. Very few visitors saw it, so the Stimson Center regifted it to the Hiroshima Peace Memorial Museum in 2016, where it now resides.

With initial funding and a name in hand, Barry and I went looking for office space. I swallowed hard when co-signing a three-year lease to rent Suite 304 — five rooms and around 11,000 square feet of office space — at 1350 Connecticut Ave, NW, adjacent to Dupont Circle. The American Institute of Architects likened it to the Flatiron building in New York. To me it was a knock-off of the Daily Planet Building in the opening credits of the TV show where Superman would fly off the rooftop to rescue Lois Lane and commit justice against evildoers.

Barry and I put out our shingle in August 1989. Stimson’s founding motto was “Pragmatic Steps Toward Ideal Objectives.” I was President and CEO of Stimson; Barry was Chairman of the Board. Barry had his Stimson projects and I had mine. That worked until the growth of Barry’s for-profit business, Defense Forecasts, Inc., precluded his being a project manager at Stimson. We initially talked about my working on projects at DFI and sitting on its Board, but I decided to focus exclusively on the non-profit side. Our first two hires, Brett Lambert and John Parachini, now sit on Stimson’s Board.

Stimson grew and DFI grew more. After three years, we bid adieu to the Daily Planet Building and signed a lease to rent the top floor at 21 Dupont Circle, a sleek glass and brick building across the street from our original offices. My office overlooked the spot where I was arrested during the huge ‘May Day’ demonstrations in 1971. When we outgrew that space, Stimson and DFI moved into the Carnegie Endowment’s old offices on the top two floors of 11 Dupont Circle. The space became available because the Endowment had moved into a new building on Massachusetts Avenue. Barry and I split Tom Hughes’s old office in half. Our twin vistas looked south past the Circle, toward Lafayette Park and the White House.

The first decade of Stimson’s existence was a hopeful time, a time of great opportunities and accomplishments. It was a time to think big. Our business plan was simple: Work on hard security problems in creative ways. Be policy entrepreneurs. Identify target audiences, then provide analysis and practical recommendations on how to get from “here to there.” Convene meetings with stakeholders. Publish deliverables. Establish comparative advantage on an issue area, maintain it, and look for adjacent or related problems on which to make our mark. Stimson grew one foundation grant, one project, and one policy entrepreneur at a time.

Starting out, arms control was a core issue. Barry worked on taking nuclear weapons off U.S. Navy surface ships and attack submarines – weapons that weren’t useful in war and that diminished conventional military capabilities. I worked on cooperative aerial overflights and promoted an Open Skies Treaty. Both ideas were adopted by the George H.W. Bush administration. Bill Durch came on board and established comparative advantage on reforming the United Nations and strengthening peacekeeping operations, to be followed by Tori Holt, who developed the theme of the UN’s “responsibility to protect.” UN-related programming remains central to Stimson. Amy Smithson joined us to conduct field research and to write about chemical and biological weapons in the former Soviet Union.

Barry mastered the art of convening bipartisan panels of heavyweights before co-founding Stimson, having set up a working group led by Senators John Warner and Sam Nunn that led to the creation of Nuclear Risk Reduction Centers in Washington and Moscow during the Reagan administration. (I helped draft the report.) At Stimson, Barry convened two impactful panels. One focused on upgrading the State Department’s way of communicating with the world and with its own employees. Working group members included Colin Powell, Condoleezza Rice (who became a Board member), and Frank Carlucci. Many of their recommendations were implemented. The second panel, in which I participated, brought together heavy hitters like Paul Nitze and General Andrew Goodpaster to endorse a phased approach to eliminate nuclear weapons.

In the early 1990s, I began traveling to India and Pakistan to have conversations about confidence and security building measures – creating hotlines, providing advanced notice of military exercises and missile flight tests, and the like –- suggesting that they might also have applicability in southern Asia. These measures helped keep the Cold War from becoming hot and laid the groundwork for major accords when political conditions permitted. After initial skepticism and after experiencing serious nuclear-tinged crises, India and Pakistan eventually agreed to negotiate them. But there was no real investment in these measures on the subcontinent, and even less in peacemaking.

In the mid-1990s, three treaties faced important deadlines. The Nonproliferation Treaty was in its twenty-fifth year in 1995; it could either be extended indefinitely or be extended for a time-limited duration, to be followed by another conference to determine its fate. A treaty to end the testing of nuclear weapon was entering a negotiating endgame after decades of effort. And a convention banning the production and use of chemical weapons needed the Senate’s consent for ratification. Because this was an unusual time, and because these opportunities were fleeting, Stimson departed somewhat from our “how do we get from here to there” approach. The need of the hour was to secure gains that were within reach. Joe Cirincione, John Parachini, and Amy Smithson took an active role in working with the executive branch, informing Capitol Hill, and coordinating NGOs to push for the indefinite extension of the Nonproliferation Treaty, the negotiation of the Comprehensive Test Ban Treaty, and the ratification of the Chemical Weapons Convention. We succeeded on all three counts. Success in arms control is never permanent, however. All three agreements have dedicated opponents at home and abroad.

I never expected Stimson to become a place of meaningful work for so many people. At the outset, my objectives were more selfish than selfless. I was looking for a meaningful place to do my own work and to speak in my own voice. To be sure, Stimson had to grow; there is no steady state when it comes to institution building, and expansion is way better than contraction. So, I set out to grow Stimson at a modest pace. When I stepped down in 2000, our budget was around three million dollars. My successor, Ellen Laipson, grew Stimson by actively seeking funding from government sources. Barry was way ahead of me on this, but I conceded the point because foundation grantmaking in our core competencies was shrinking. Then Brian Finlay took Stimson to new heights with strategic mergers and by moving smartly into new programming areas, especially in Asia and on environmental issues. Stimson’s budget is now thirteen million dollars strong, with a staff of over sixty.

The University of Pennsylvania has a ranking system for think tanks. All ranking systems are suspect, but in this case, I agree with its findings. Stimson punches way above its weight class. The think tanks with endowments and huge budgets that work on international security, like the Carnegie Endowment and Brookings, top the list. In the current ranking, Stimson ranks tenth in the United States and eighteenth globally. Stimson also gets special recognition for creative, impactful, paradigm-shifting work. Not bad for nongovernmental work, or for our modest start-up in 1989.

As Stimson grew, there were growing pains between me and Barry. Barry’s preferred rate of growth was faster than mine. To do so, we needed funding from the U.S. and foreign governments. A necessary precondition for seeking government funds was to create formal lines of separation between Stimson’s non-profit work and Barry’s business, which thrived on government finding. This was accomplished with the help of Board members in the mid-1990s. Before I stepped down as President and CEO, Stimson’s Board approved criteria for accepting government money. Growth also helped with separation, as DFI outgrew its space-sharing arrangements with Stimson. We each rented separate space in 2006, when Stimson moved to 1211 19th Street. 

Barry knew that I wasn’t enthusiastic about fundraising, especially from individuals, corporations, and governments – areas where success was essential to institutional growth. Plus, I was clearly worn down by running Stimson. I stayed too long as President and CEO – eleven years — but I wanted to choose the time of my leaving.  Barry wanted change sooner rather than later, and he was right: my stepping down helped Stimson grow and did me a world of good. I could work autonomously on projects of my own design, and I stopped worrying about personnel decisions and fundraising for others. In 2000, Stimson was still my baby, but I ceased being a doting parent.

This change coincided with another big move: Alessandra and I decided to sell our house in North Arlington and to move to the woods outside of Charlottesville. We raised our children in that house, living in it for twenty-five years. But Alessandra never liked the DC merry-go-round, where too many people are more intent to know where you work than who you are, looking over your shoulder to seek out someone more useful to talk to.

In 1999, Alessandra stopped wishing we lived somewhere else and made a supremely wise decision. Her friend was leaving a little rental cottage situated on forty acres of woods just outside Batesville, Virginia. My spouse decided to assume the rent and use the cottage for weekend getaways. She advised me of these facts, then added, “You’re welcome to join me, but only if you don’t work.”

Once again, the timing was right. Misha was in her second year of college in California, Josh was working in Washington, and I was stepping away from the day-to-day responsibilities of running Stimson. We spent close to two years in that cottage getting away from the DC grind. We had no TV, and the iPhone was still eight years into the future. We enjoyed the low-key-ness of Charlottesville and walking in the woods. And driving country roads. Our favorite was Edge Valley Road in North Garden. The name seemed perfect, as one side of the road was mostly pasture and the other side was mostly woods. One morning in 2000 I took a solo drive on Edge Valley Road and saw a for sale sign. We moved into that house in February 2001.

With the proceeds of the sale of our nondescript, but ideally located house near the Potomac River across from Georgetown, we bought a stunning wood frame home on eight acres, with a pool and a toolshed, which became my office. As well as a co-op efficiency apartment near Dupont Circle. For six years, I commuted weekly from North Garden to DC, driving north on Tuesday mornings after rush hour and returning Thursday evenings after rush hour. This was crazy, but that was where my head was at. I wasn’t ready to cut ties with Stimson and with Washington. Working remotely wasn’t done back then, so I did a split week between home and DC. After we moved, I scratched the itch to teach at the college level. The University of Virginia offered me a professorship of practice, where I taught one senior seminar a semester for nine years. That was plenty.

Stimson was everything I wanted and yet couldn’t imagine, at least not at the outset. I loved what I did; it was exhausting, but it didn’t feel like work. It felt like a gift — the gift of meaningful work, a gift I could pass along to others. I experienced occasional successes to go along with the frustrations of working on hard issues. The visiting fellowships at the center I set up in India, Pakistan, and China brought rising talent into the field. The workshops on nuclear issues on the subcontinent helped to create a common language of confidence-building measures, risk reduction, and an appreciation for the perils of nuclear deterrence. A stream of publications generated echoes in the region. However, hard issues are, by definition, resistant to positive change. They’re entrenched because powerful interests resist changes that diminish their power.

I learned coping mechanisms. One was to work on two hard issues at a time; that way, when I got tired of banging my head against a brick wall, I would move to the second issue, and my headache would be gone. Temporarily. When I was peddling confidence- and security-building measures and learning about the dynamics of crisis management on the subcontinent, I was also working on a code of conduct for responsible space-faring nations. Stimson prepared the first drafts of these rules of the road. Twenty years later, negotiations over a space code of conduct might actually begin. That was the nature of my business: look for opportunities before they arise and wait for a long game if necessary.

The two aspects of my work life that enriched me the most were travel and mentoring. Places and people nourished my soul. Stimson worked on world problems, so part of my job description was to introduce Stimson to foreign audiences. I qualified for million-miler treatment on United Airlines alone. Alessandra bore the brunt of my travel. She was forgiving. We worked out a ten-day rule: no matter how many countries I visited or how distant the trip, I needed to return home on the tenth day.

I was living the dream of a school kid who was fascinated by maps and the names of capital cities. I revisited Cairo to convene a workshop on confidence-building measures. And Istanbul, the Constantinople of my imagination. Jerusalem. Buenos Aires. Brasilia. Stockholm. Helsinki. Moscow. St. Petersburg. Kiev. Beijing. Shanghai. All over India and Pakistan. The world historic cities of Europe, and many more. I was curious, and my curiosity was rewarded with real conversations and feasts for the eyes. After every trip, something inside me changed. Then I came home to my sweet loves, and I took root again.

I owed so much to my mentors, so how could I not repay it forward? Mine wasn’t a selfless mentoring; it was quite purposeful. The issues I cared about were going to survive me. After I was gone, my mentees would be hard at work, looking for opportunities to take a bite out of a big problem. And it gave me great nachas – there’s that Yiddish word again – to see my mentees grow into their powers after leaving Stimson. I loved mentoring, and not just for these reasons. It was one area of my chosen profession where there was receptivity rather than resistance. And I was good at it.

I retired from Stimson in 2020. The timing was once again clear. I had lost interest in fundraising, and the foundation supporting my book project on the history of nuclear arms control lost interest in the topic. My last initiatives on South Asia programming – two massive, free on-line courses on nuclear issues and a platform for rising talent to express themselves called South Asian Voices – were well underway. I had already handed the reigns of South Asia programming to Sameer Lalwani and Elizabeth Threlkeld, who continued to grow the program. I stopped going into the office regularly and had periodic health crises. My retirement party was postponed multiple times due to COVID. It morphed into a “Tribute” on May 18, 2022. Another circle was completed. I gave much to Stimson; Stimson gave back more to me.

 

 

  

 

 

 

 

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